Free Shows:
free -m
total used free shared buff/cache available
Mem: 32130 22377 9553 48 200 9368
Swap: 8191 465 7726
But ps aux shows in the RSS Column(I didn't include 0's). It only adds up to 6325. Does free know something PS doesn't?
0.0859375 MB /sbin/iscsid
0.550781 MB /usr/sbin/watchdog-mux
0.617188 MB (sd-pam)
0.667969 MB sleep
0.777344 MB sort
0.910156 MB awk
1.52734 MB /usr/bin/lxcfs
1.5625 MB /sbin/agetty
1.67188 MB /sbin/lvmetad
1.87891 MB /usr/sbin/pvefw-logger
2.39062 MB /bin/bash
2.48828 MB /usr/sbin/rsyslogd
2.55469 MB /usr/sbin/cron
2.57031 MB /usr/bin/rrdcached
2.76562 MB /lib/systemd/systemd-udevd
2.875 MB /usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/lxc/lxc-monitord
2.98047 MB /sbin/rpcbind
3.16016 MB pvedaemon
3.21094 MB /usr/lib/postfix/sbin/master
3.23047 MB pveproxy
3.28516 MB ps
3.32422 MB /usr/bin/dbus-daemon
3.53125 MB /lib/systemd/systemd-timesyncd
3.58203 MB /usr/sbin/smartd
3.85547 MB /usr/sbin/rpc.mountd
4.32422 MB /lib/systemd/systemd-logind
4.82422 MB /sbin/iscsid
5.33203 MB /usr/sbin/sshd
5.59375 MB qmgr
5.60547 MB /lib/systemd/systemd
5.9375 MB /lib/systemd/systemd-journald
6.41406 MB pickup
6.6875 MB /sbin/init
6.70703 MB sshd:
9.11328 MB pve-ha-crm
13.3555 MB pve-ha-lrm
16.6328 MB -bash
17.0898 MB /sbin/dmeventd
23.6094 MB pve-firewall
28.7695 MB task
32.1758 MB pvestatd
35.6953 MB pvedaemon
36.2188 MB pvedaemon
37.9297 MB pvedaemon
41.3477 MB pveproxy
42.7656 MB pveproxy
46.2617 MB pveproxy
56.0391 MB /usr/bin/pmxcfs
66.5078 MB spiceproxy
71.3086 MB spiceproxy
83.8711 MB /usr/bin/perl
5586.38 MB /usr/bin/kvm
EDIT: I should note, not sure if it matters but the is Proxmox(A debian distro). You can see the largest memory user is a VM. Also this usage spiked after a large rsync over NFS. Could that have anything to do with it?